I will still patronize MANDARIN TEA GARDEN, but NOT their General Santos Branch, unless they improve.
My “Bad” Mandarin Tea Garden Experience
Posted by jhurtadoMay 29
The Birth of Philippines Outsource Support (Philsupport)
Posted by jhurtadoMay 19
My 2 days Workshop on Basic Photography…
Posted by jhurtadoApr 6
For a week, I was anticipating the Workshop on Basic Photogragy by E.D. Altares at Del Rio resort, City of Koronadal… anticipating because it has been my dream to get great photographs. As far as i could remember, I have been enthralled with cameras. Since my childhood years, I am one of those who love taking pictures of myself, my friends, my family and some sceneries. So when I got tagged about this workshop I didn’t hesitate…
Day 1. I arrived at the venue and E. D. Altares is giving his introduction. Not much of a fanfare (which I like)and gave us some background. One thing that hit me is the phrase in the hand out that says ” What makes a good camera is the warm body that’s holding it”… So, I listened intently while checking my “classmates” who are also listening intently. I feel relax with the ambiance. No one in the class pretends to be hotshot-wannabe ( Thank God!) and even E.D. Altares made it a point that Photography requires constant learning. His method of teaching is what you call “simple and understandable”.
The Exposure Triangle. Aperture, ISO, Shutter speed were presented in a NOT-INTIMIDATING manner. We were given examples and tips but just enough for starters. Too much info will actually cause mind to freeze, at least in my case. Trying to understand all these things can be overwhelming especially if you are trying to figure out the technical terms while finding it in your camera. But, on my part I was able to grasp the thought…
Now comes the tricky part. We were tasked to capture still photos. Several objects were placed and its up to us to capture it. Again, I said the tricky part…why??? Well, aside from understanding exposures I have to be creative to pick the shot. When I first look at the objects i didn’t know what to do or how to shoot it that would somehow elicit message or at least an impression that there is indeed a message out of the shot. So I clicked and clicked and clicked. Everytime I view the picture that I took, I started to feel “uneasy” and somehow I feel that none of my shots are worth sharing. At the end of the day we were given assignments to get more still shots at home… so i did… and still I couldn’t find anything I like. My consolation is that E.D. Altares quoted someone that said “your first 10,000 photos are the worst photos”… hmmmn
DAY 2. Photoshoot. Models from General Santos arrived. I just joined my “classmates” and keep on clicking. I noticed that my shots are blurry and snowy… so I asked for assistance. Atty. Nonoy Rojas was quite helpful and the group now has an easy buddy atmosphere. Most of us, laugh at ourselves when we check each others works.
All in all it was a very refreshing experience and i’m glad I attended the workshop. At least now I learned about basic photography. With that, I want to be better and will definitely gain more experience. I am still far from my 10,000 shots anyway.
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GUYS’ RULES in answer to GIRLS’ RULES… basahin nyo ;)
Posted by jhurtadoFeb 16
I came across this GUYS’ RULES and find it funny so I thought of sharing it to you…read on and tell me what you think…
“The Guys’ Rules”
At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down
Finally, the guys’ side of the story.
(I must admit, IT MIGHT HAVE A RING OF TRUTH IN IT.)
We always hear
“the rules”
From the female side.
Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!(from the guy writer)
Please note… these are all numbered “1″
ON PURPOSE!
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports. It’s like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.
See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days
1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are.
Don’t ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of them makes you sad or angry, then we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle, besides we know you will bring it up again later.
1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to,! Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine….Really.
1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
Anong masasabi nating mga girls dito? comment na…
My take on Politics and more…
Posted by jhurtadoFeb 10
10 Things that I have been contemplating on doing in the next 5 years
Posted by jhurtadoFeb 4
7. Open a TESDA Accredited School. I have started all necessary papers works already but there are some other necessities to be prepared… but I will surely work on this.
8. Rolex. I am not a watch person. The reason why I want to have a Rolex is more of a sentimental one. When my mom was still alive, we were talking of getting one for each other. She is scheduled to visit me in Cebu City and finally buy. However, she passed away 2 weeks before her scheduled visit.
9. Contribute in Political Education. Sad to say, our society is still in its infant’s stage when it comes to political education. Most people look at elected officials differently from what their TRUE FUNCTIONS. There are still people who cast their vote according to perception. I am not saying this as limited to my hometown. I am talking in general. Try to see how many people who gets into office and actually did their job. Look at the national headlines. Why would people spend hundreds of thousands & even milllions to get in the position with only meager salary. How can they recoup their expenses? Legislative officials are supposed to make/revise/create laws & ordinances & executive officials are supposed to enforce/implement laws… but somehow, people judge their elected officials according to “perception” such as the smile, the wave, the firm handshake, the visibility, the easy access & the controversy. Filipinos love soap opera, the telenovela…and somehow politics is perceived as a prime time show.
10. A baby girl. On the lighter side, maybe my Justin is old enough to understand & welcome a little baby sister… So a baby girl for me in the next 5 years is another blessing.
Note: Again, all written here are the things that I am CONTEMPLATING… any of this may change…
HAPPY READING.
My Father, myself
Posted by jhurtadoNov 22
My father, a retired judge, is a formidable character. He can be lovable to some, yet annoying to a certain group. To me, my father is a man with different sides. Let me take you for a trip a several years back…. ( down the memory lane ). I grew up in a house where my father’s word is THE LAW. Just once sharp look from him makes me and my brother literally froze. One minute is a shouting and fussing over something, the next minute he is whistling. My father, a complex one.
My father has been a great influence in my life. Just like in playing lawn tennis, I came to like the game not because I wanted to but it is his sports and I was exposed to it at a very young age. Meaning, I have no choice but to like it. Getting involved in another sports is out of the question because I have the feeling it won’t prosper without his support… Oh and you might be asking where my mom all the while. She is the best thing that ever happened to my Dad, according to my opinion. My mom is the moderator, the fiscalizer, the heart & soul.
While I was growing up, I felt like I can never be enough for my Dad. When I showed him grades like 90, he would then say “why only 90 & not higher???” So next time around I showed him an average of 92 and he would then say — “why only 92 & not 95???” I never measure up. I won awards and recognitions in high school but I still feel it was not enough. To some, maybe they would rebel, do drugs or walk out. I deal differently. I continued to develop myself & tried to excell.
In college, I couldn’t wait to be away from home. I took up Pre-law course ( AB- Political Science ). I ended up in a university almost 45 minutes away by plane. Yeah, that far. At last I thought I am free from my father’s influence but just the same the course that I took are basically the preparation for almost the same job description he had. Everytime I sent my parents some letters, I would look forward to my mom’s reply because I feel so loved by her & I dread the thought of my father’s answer because they are nothing but corrections of my grammar.
When I was reviewing for the BAR EXAMS ( to become a full pledged lawyer ), my mom passed away. I have no choice but to stop the review for I was ( and still am ) devastated. I decided to come home. I was having mixed emotions — my grief & my fear to face my father without my mom. I came home to see him almost wrecked. My dad ( the strongman ) was slumped in the chair, couldn’t control his tears, couldn’t manage to run the wake. I thought I needed to be consoled and to be comforted… but I felt, my father needs me more.
I managed to put everything under control during the wake, the arrival of our relatives coming from different places including Australia. My dad just floated. After the burial, he asked me to stay in our hometown for good ( something I’ve been dreading to hear ) but I heard myself saying yes. I had to quit my job and start a life back home on an instant.
Years later, My father bravely recovered from head surgery. He still plays tennis actively at the age of 77. He had an accident on the court and had a blood clot on his head which was removed . I have never seen my Dad as a weak person but there he was struggling to stand, struggling to walk. But just after a month he now stands and attempting to drive ( I told you — he is stubborn ).
Looking back at everything, I believe I am tougher than my father. I think he just have a hard time expressing his love to me. Oh, by the way I forgot to mentioned he remarried after 3 years that my mom died — and he asked my permission to do so. I get along with my stepmother. I found out that he has nothing but praises for me yet when I am around he just doesn’t know how to say it. I think my father is using “loud voice” and strict approach to cover up just how much he cares.
Yeah, we still clash…we argue, we give “killer” looks when we disagree… yet when he needs to get things done, he asked me to troubleshoot it for him. Oftentimes, we – as kids – always get furious by our parents “insensitive” attitudes… let’s face it — THEY DO GET INTO OUR NERVES more than anyone does. Haha!
To be honest, I wouldn’t be where I am now if I didn’t try to be “excellent” in my father’s eyes. I tried so hard. I simply want to hear & feel coming from him that no matter what happens I am his daughter. That exact words didn’t come out of his mouth — maybe not ever. But you see, I got more than that — my father needs me. Even his wife cannot force him to go see a doctor, it takes my call to send him fast to the hospital. My father is a strongman… you know why??? He must be — for he molded a fine & compassionate daughter —- ME.
(Author’s note: 1st published sometime 2006 in my other blogsite )
Quality Time…
Posted by jhurtadoJan 1
Last December 30, I decided to wait for new year in
The lack of firework display last New Year’s eve was compensated by our instant plan to go to BLUEJAZ beach resort. As I am writing this blog, my nephews are lost in their own activities which include slides, swimming, games & parlor games. What makes it more enjoyable is that my Dad who is 77 years old is witnessing all these family time and he is so happy that I catch him teary-eyed once in awhile. My stepmom, Sarah, is fun to be with because she & I shared same interest — shopping & eating.
About 15 of us are spending January 1, 2010 here in the beach with nothing to think about but just to unwind. Let problems, worries, & other concerns be dealt with once we go back home. For now, this is the kind of break I have been wanting to have.
This is all the more special because Justin Antonie, my little angel, is with me. He is such a joy. I am so amazed how he managed to have 10-15 steps and he is not even 1 yr old. He loves to eat. He would even take a shot at raw-green tomato. Although I think he is still adjusting because he kept on crying at night. He loves the water too. He would try to splash & swim and he is so funny. He smiles over little things. He will turn 1 year old this January 11. I still have to finish the 6 months requirements before I can process the adoption paper. He is my boy, period!
Ok then… Have to get another iced tea… until next time.
The City of Koronadal Condemns the Gruesome Massacre that Happened in Maguindanao
Posted by jhurtadoNov 25
Hon. Khristine Michelle S. Aguilar
Co-authors: All Members of the Sangguniang Panlungsod
WHEREAS, majority of those killed were a part of the group who were about to file the candidacy of the Vice Mayor Ismael Mangudadatu of the Municipality of Buluan who nis aspiring to run for the gubernatorial post this coming 2010 elections. Included in the group was the vice mayor’s wife, his two sisters, a few other relatives, his supporters, and a number of media practitioners.
WHEREAS, in the said travesty some women were allegedly raped, some were beheaded, others were mutilated before killed and dumped in a mass grave;
WHEREAS, this kind of inhuman & barbaric actions have brought about utter sadness, fear and alarm to its neighboring areas, especially to the City of Koronadal, wherein a number of its constituents specially some media men were unfortunately included in the said massacre;
WHEREAS, the international press has dubbed this tragedy as the worst violence against media men in recent history and this shall once again leave an indelible stain in the image of the Philippines and the island group of Mindanao of which this City belongs
WHEREAS, it is prayed that justice soon be served and all the perpetrators of this gruesome incident be accordingly penalized under the rule of law in the name of the innocent victims whose lives were cut short by senseless act of terrorism.
Is the RISK worth taking?
Posted by jhurtadoNov 14
It cannot be denied that “political fever” is up on the air for over six months. With all those paid TV ads and other forms of exposures made by aspirants you can definitely say that the “game is on”.
I am a second termer councilor of the city of Koronadal. I started my political career as PUROK PRESIDENT, became #1 Barangay Kagawad & eventually won as City Councilor. I am now faced with a huge decision that may alter my political career. A decision that will involve LIFE CHANGING DESTINY.
I am offered to run as VICE GOVERNOR of our province. Initial reaction of my constituents is not to pursue it because I still have 1 term. Others are saying also that now is the right time because the the incumbent Vice Governor is now running for other position. And if I will not grab it now, it will be much difficult to get the same chance once a new Vice Governor has been elected.
I am now confronted with a reality that I have to face sooner that I expected. To accept the offer thereby entering a much difficult political arena but which I can also give a good fight? Or settle to run as city councilor and count my blessings anyway I have bigger chance of winning. If we look at it that way, then it is best to go with the “easy” way… that is to run for city council. However, if we look deeper the vice Governor position will also catapult me into a new sphere. A sphere wherein I have positioned myself that I can be a PROVINCIAL CONTENDER. Anyway, if I finish my term as Councilor there is no way but to seek higher position. The problem is, by that time new politician is already seating in the position. If they are hard to beat when they are not yet seated how much more if they are already in place. That’s the so-called equity of the incumbent.
In my honest opinion, I will simply pray and seek guidance. For all its worth, no one succeeds if we keep on playing safe all the time. I just hope my constituents will support me in whatever decisions I will finally make.
Wikepedia: Politics is a process by which groups of people make decisions. The term is generally applied to behavior within civil governments, but politics has been observed in all human group interactions, including corporate, academic and religious institutions. It consists of “social relations involving authority or power”[1] and refers to the regulation of a political unit, and to the methods and tactics used to formulate and apply policy













